Types of messages used by mothers to communicate the children: conversation analysis

  • Oktifani Winarti UPN Veteran Jawa Timur
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Keywords: conversation analysis, family interaction, morality


Using Conversation Analysis, this paper explores the interaction between a mother and their children while giving morality messages. Conversation Analysis breaks down every interaction between a mother and their children to understand the success of interaction for a mother in delivering moral lessons to her children. By using a natural-setting audio recording and exporting the conversation through excerpts of conversations, this paper reveals three interesting findings from their interaction and turn-taking through varieties of turn-design sequences. The findings of this research show there are three ways of interaction used by mothers: 1) future forecasting, 2) authority-evoking, and 3) self-disclosing.


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How to Cite
Winarti, O. (2023). Types of messages used by mothers to communicate the children: conversation analysis. Jurnal Studi Komunikasi, 7(1), 285 - 296. https://doi.org/10.25139/jsk.v7i1.6154